Susa ubandlululo lwama-single singles kusuka ekhanda lakho. Esikhathini esithile esidlule umngane wangitshela ngabo futhi ngacabanga ngabantu abaphelelwe yithemba abathi ngazo zonke izindlela (bawufanele umqondo) babheke umaqondana. Akusekho kangako ngokufuna umlingani, kepha sekuzizwa ukhululekile noma ukhululekile ukwenza imisebenzi nabantu ohlanganyela nabo ukungashadi kwakho. Uma kuvela uthando, noma okunye, wamukelekile! kodwa okubalulekile ukuthi uhlale ukhetha njalo. Iningi labantu abathatha lolu hambo, futhi lapho ngifuna ukuthi ukhiphe ubandlululo lwakho bafuna ukuhlangana nabantu.
Enye yezinzuzo engizithola ngalolu hlobo lokuhamba ngesikebhe ukuthi Bakunikeza inani lokuthi ikhabethe lakho libaluleke kangakanani futhi uma ufuna, inketho yokwabelana ngalo nomlingani wobulili obufanayo.
Lapho bekwazisa ngesikebhe, ngaphezu kohambo lwabo bavamise ukukunikeza uchungechunge lohambo, Njengakwamanye ama-singles, le kuyindlela enhle yokulungisa izintshisekelo zakho ezifanayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi itafula onikezwe lona alihambelani nanoma ngubani, kepha ohambweni noma emisebenzini sekuvele kulula kuwe ukuthi wabelane ngokuthandayo. Isibonelo, akulona uhlobo olufanayo lomuntu ohamba uhambo lwebhayisikili elizungeza idolobha, njengalowo onquma ukuthatha uhambo lokuhambahamba phakathi nendawo.
Umbono omuhle ukuthi ubusuku bokuqala imvamisa kuba nomhlangano ohleliwe ukuze "kuphulwe iqhwa", ukuthi ngemisebenzi eyahlukene ehlongozwayo ngabenzi bezimpawu zomkhumbi, noma yinkampani eyihlelayo, ikusiza ukuba wazi abahambi nabo, labo abanye besilisa nabesifazane abangashadile.
Into ejwayelekile ukuthi abangashadile abahambi nezingane zabo kulezi zinhlobo zohambo, kepha kuyinkambiso eqhubeka nemfashini eyenzekayo, bese kuthi nemisebenzi ihlanganise nezingane. Ngokungangabazeki indlela yokudlala ngokuphepha ngokwengeziwe, noma ukumane ukwazi ukujabulela namadodana akho namadodakazi akho eholidini nobaba nomama abanezinkinga ezifanayo.