Inqanawa ifana nesixeko, kuyo kukho iivenkile zokutyela, iindawo zolonwabo, ukhuseleko, izibonelelo, iikhabhathi (ezinokuba ngamakhaya) kunye nemigaqo ethile yokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha kwintlalo kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuze ukuhlala kunye konke kube mnandi ngakumbi .
Singayishwankathela le mithetho yendlela yokuziphatha kwezi ngongoma zilandelayo:
- imfundo Ngokubanzi, nanini na sidibana nomnye umkhenkethi phambi kwethu, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukumbulisa, nokuba asilwazi ulwimi lwakhe. Oku kuguqulela ekubeni uhloniphe abanye, ungazibethi izithende zakho, ukubetha iingcango okanye ukukhwaza kwiipaseji okanye kwikhabhathi.
- Ingubo. Kuya kufuneka unxibe ngokufanelekileyo kwindawo nganye eyahlukileyo yenqanawa, ngokuqinisekileyo xa usenza ugcino baya kuba sele bekubonisile. Kuhambo olukhulu aluvumelekanga ukungena kwindawo yokutyela okanye ekhasino ngesuti yokuhlamba.
- Ukumodareyitha. Zama ukumodareyitha kwinkcitho yakho ukuze ungaphelelwa yimali embindini wohambo. Kuyafana nokusela utywala, zama ukungakhweli kwimiboniso enxilileyo, ayimnandanga kakhulu into yokwazisa abasebenzi abakwibhodi, ukuze batsale umdla womntu.
- Ukuqonda. Ukuba awanelisekanga ngezinye iinkcukacha zeholide yakho zama ukwenza ibango lakho elifanelekileyo kwisebe elihambelanayo, kodwa ungonakalisi iholide ukuya kwindinyana eseleyo.
- Umonde nentlonipho. Qonda ukuba baninzi abantu enqanaweni kwaye kukho iinkonzo ezithile eziceliweyo phantse ngaxeshanye phantse ngumntu wonke. Musa ukuphelelwa ngumonde ukuba ingqalelo ayikhawulezi. Kwaye khumbula ukuba bambalwa okanye baninzi abantu ekufuneka ubaphathe ngentlonipho bonke abasebenzi. Kwakhona, ungaphelelwa ngumonde ngezinto ezithile zoluntu ezinje ngezinyusi, izixhobo zomthambo, iinkundla, iisosa ...
- Ukuhamba kwexesha. Ukuba uya kwiminyhadala, isenzo okanye ukumelwa, kuya kufuneka ugcine ixesha, ukuze ungaphazamisi abantu abakhe.
Ndicinga ukuba ezi ngcebiso yile nto kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungaziphatha njani xa ukhwele inqanawa kwaye, ngokubanzi, kulo naluphi na uhambo.