Umkhumbi ufana nedolobha, kuwo kunezindawo zokudlela, izindawo zokungcebeleka, ukuphepha, izinsiza, amakamelo (okungaba amakhaya) kanye nemithetho ethile yokuziphatha nokuziphatha komphakathi kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuze ukuhlangana kwabantu bonke futhi kujabulise kakhudlwana .
Singafingqa le mithetho yokuthi kufanele siziphathe kanjani kula maphuzu alandelayo:
- imfundo Ngokuvamile, noma nini lapho sihlangana nomunye umvakashi ubuso nobuso, kuyinto evamile ukumbingelela, noma singalwazi ulimi lwakhe. Lokhu kuphinde kuhumushe kube ukuhlonipha abanye, hhayi ukushaya izithende zakho, ukushaya iminyango noma ukumemeza emaphaseji noma ekamelweni.
- Igumbi lokhiya. Kufanele ugqoke ngokufanele endaweni ngayinye ehlukile yomkhumbi, impela lapho wenza ukubhuka bazobe sebevele bekukhombisile. Kuhambo oluningi lokuvakasha awuvunyelwe ukungena endaweni yokudlela noma ekhasino ugqoke isudi yokugeza.
- Ukulinganisela. Zama ukulinganisela ekusebenziseni kwakho imali ukuze ungaphelelwa yimali maphakathi nohambo. Okufanayo nokuphuza utshwala, zama ukungakhuphuli imibukiso yokudakwa, akumnandi neze ukwazisa abantu abasebenza ebhodini, ukuze bahehe othile.
- Ukuqonda. Uma unganelisekile ngeminye imininingwane yeholide lakho zama ukwenza isicelo sakho esifanele emnyangweni ohambelanayo, kodwa ungalimazi iholidi kulo lonke leli vesi.
- Ukubekezela nokuhlonipha. Qonda ukuthi kunabantu abaningi emkhunjini nokuthi kunemisebenzi ethile ecelwa cishe ngasikhathi sinye cishe yibo bonke abantu. Ungaphelelwa isineke uma ukunakwa kungasheshi. Futhi khumbula ukuthi kunabantu abambalwa noma abaningi okufanele ubaphathe ngenhlonipho bonke abasebenzi. Futhi, ungaphelelwa yisineke ngezinto ezithile zomphakathi ezinjengamakheshi, imishini yokuzivocavoca, izinkantolo, ama-sauna ...
- Isikhathi. Uma uya emicimbini, ezenzweni noma ezethulweni, kufanele ugcine isikhathi, ukuze ungaphazamisi abantu asebeke baba khona.
Ngicabanga ukuthi lawa macebiso kufanele uhlale wazi ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani emkhunjini wokuhamba ngesikebhe futhi, ngokuvamile, kunoma yiluphi uhambo.